Guru conveys by their very presence the concentrated essence of being themselves, as one with all, as one through all. So being, their role becomes role-play. A play of roles that is interactive, interchangeable and transferable.
The most important point to all of this, in my opinion, is that we learn to really listen to one another and not just wait for our turn to speak. We need to allow each side to express its thoughts and opinions.
I am choosing to spend my kindness very carefully towards certain people who have taken too much, doesn’t mean I will lose my instinct to want to be kind, and give people the benefit of the doubt until they prove me otherwise.