Perhaps Forgiven But Not Forgotten


Words roll out so easily, but once released they can be cemented in the ether forever.

Perhaps forgiven, but not forgotten.

Each word a stinging slap. The kind that leaves a red, lingering welt across my soul; bruised by those tiny words you claim insignificant.

Your words don’t matter?

Because I hold them dear as tiny fragments of your heart and soul, now intermingled with mine. I will serve them back to you softly, wrapped in love and compassion rather than wound you with my own tiny daggers.

How do I know which words to trust?

Words matter.

If your words emblazoned with venom and anger are meaningless, what are the ones dripping and engorged with love and sweetness?

I know the depths of your roots and the heartiness of their stalk. I know that every landscape needs weeding from time to time to flourish.

Growth blooms from what once seemed impenetrable and barren, there is a softening.

Photo by Lukas Müller on Unsplash

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  1. Gregory

    What a lovely fresh voice. Soulful, heartfelt expressions of Love & Compassion for Other.
    Clearly a Soul tempered within the crucible of Fire…

    May words of Love continue to flow from your beautiful Soul effortlessly….


    • Thank you so much, Gregory! I appreciate you not only taking the time to read my writing, but for also leaving such a kind and thoughtful comment. I really appreciate it. I bow in humble gratitude.

      ~ Sugar

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  4. Needed to read this right now!

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