By Krissy VanAlstyne HOLY FIRE

The Feminine Is Awake & She’s Pretty F*cking Pissed


The feminine is waking to much anger in her cells right now.

The deeply rooted, dark, painful shit that seems to be a firmly needed re-direct to the misguided masculine ways.

She is not your mother, nor is she responsible for the love yours didn’t give you.

She’s pissed right now and rightfully so.

Her nurturing ways are no longer a gentle, docile dumping grounds for bullshit they once were.

She’s sick of love being seen as a weakness so she is learning to use her fire in new, unforgiving ways. Showing the masculine who and what is in charge now.

Love is in charge.

But not in the wrongful ways it was once used against her. Oh no. That time is done.

So, she blazes, she screams and she honours her sacred truth.

Her voice demanding to be heard, to be felt, to be respected, to be taken seriously, and it is not pretty. At least not in the ways that it has been expected of her.

But fuck those ways, because that time is done and she has never been more beautiful, more whole, and more empowered than when she now rages in her commitment to the feminine hearts healing.

She is rising, and pretty has a whole new meaning. She knows her job isn’t to live by old rules, to be kept in unsovereign ways. To love a darkness that has been dumped on her — one that expected to burden her.

Instead, she is here to teach you to love it.

To teach you to stop dumping.

To teach you to stop running from your wounds.

To teach you to stop damaging the feminine hearts you leave in your wake because you refuse to address the pain that is yours.

To teach you to rise up alongside her, or to get out of her damn way!

Photo by Geo Martinez on Unsplash

For more self-study, The Urban Howl recommends The Inner Voice of Love: A Journey Through Anguish to Freedom.

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"You did not will it to happen, but it happened just the same. Now, in the brightly lit place where all is unfamiliar, you must give yourself a new name. You are no longer the woman who was betrayed; you are a more soulfully awake version of her. I want to assure you that when I speak of your own growth in the aftermath of this great wounding, I am in no way absolving those who hurt you nor am I suggesting you somehow set yourself up for harm. Without knowing the precise nature of your betrayal, I will still stand by this: Those who commit egregious betrayals against others do so from a childlike, ego-born desire to dominate, to enact power over their fellow human beings, and that thirst for dominance is socially indoctrinated and culturally validated in our feminine-starved world." —Danielle Dulsky of Danielle Dulsky #HOWLFORMEWOLFWOMAN #WAKINGWILD #BETRAYALRITUAL Submit questions to our Weekly Column — Howl for Me, Wolf-Woman: @kayharr73 @ladypantzz @tanyamarkul @thugunicorn Read more:


Krissy VanAlstyne

Krissy VanAlstyne is a fiery force. One who shows up intimately transparent in her truth, inspiring others to do the same. She does so in her private life, through her writing, and in her heart's earthly work, as a Life Coach. Krissy offers soul-level support, and guidance to those aligning with their deepest truths, exploring their darkest shadows, and who are experiencing the painful dismantling that comes with awakening. She's a woman on a soul-driven mission, an invite back to all we have ever forgotten—that we are love, that we are truth, and that we are powerful beyond our wildest dreams. She knows we are all here for great purpose, and reminds us of this knowing in the mesmerizingly complex simplicity that she continues to stand in—the fire that is her. Find her on Facebook and Instagram.

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